Martha WashingtonAs the first first lady of the United States (although the term was not coined until after her death), Martha Washington became a role model and example for all the nation's first ladies who followed her.
The oldest of the eight children of John and Frances Dandridge, she was born and raised on a Virginia plantation. Like most well-to-do girls of the time, she received an education that would prepare her to manage a household. At nineteen, she married Daniel Parke Custis, a plantation owner twenty years older than his bride. The couple had four children, two of whom died in infancy. Daniel Custis died in 1757, leaving the twenty-six-yearold Martha a very wealthy woman with an eighteen-thousand-acre estate to manage.
In 1758, George Washington, then a thirty-sixyear-old colonel and commander of the Virginia militia, began courting her. In 1759, they were married at her home. The couple, together with Martha's son and daughter, went to live at Washington's plantation, Mount Vernon. There, Martha looked after the large household, oversaw the dairy and smokehouse, and supervised the estate's spinning and weaving operation.
When Washington was named commander-inchief of the Continental Army in 1775, Martha joined him at his headquarters near Boston. From that time until the end of the Revolutionary War, she spent winters with her husband at the Army's encampments. Her calm, steady, and cheerful spirit was a great comfort to her husband, especially at Valley Forge during the harsh winter of 1778, when it seemed that the war would be lost. She nursed sick and wounded soldiers, mended their clothes, made shirts, and knitted socks for them. She also encouraged other officers’ wives to join her.
In 1789, George Washington became the first president of the United States, and Martha and two of her four grandchildren accompanied him to the new nation's first capital in New York City. Debate occurred over what to call her. Most people addressed her as “Lady Washington,” but she preferred plain “Mrs. Washington.” She gave formal dinner parties at the presidential home, appeared with the president at ceremonial occasions, and hosted weekly Friday evening receptions with Abigail Adams, the wife of Vice President John Adams. Martha has been credited with creating an elegant atmosphere surrounding the president, and her friendly but dignified manner made her a popular public figure.
After Washington's two terms in office, he and his wife retired to Mount Vernon. After George Washington's death in 1799, Martha Washington lived quietly at Mount Vernon for the next two years, dying there at the age of seventy-one. The first U.S. postage stamp honoring an American woman depicted Martha Washington, issued in 1902. She is also the only woman (other than allegorical figures such as Justice and Liberty) depicted on the face of a U.S. banknote: on the $1 silver certificate of 1886 and 1891.