Monroe, ElizabethBorn on November 27, 1728, in New York City, Elizabeth Kortright was the second of five children born to Laurence and Hannah Kortright. Her father was a wealthy Tory merchant who remained in the United States after the American Revolution. Elizabeth grew up in New York City and made her debut into the city's exclusive mercantile society. In 1785, she met James Monroe, then a Virginia delegate to the Confederation Congress. They were married on February 16, 1786, and lived with her father in New York until the congressional session ended. The Monroes then returned to Fredricksburg, Virginia where James somewhat reluctantly took up the practice of law to support the family; Eliza Monroe was born in 1786. In 1789, James Monroe bought Albemarle farm near Jefferson's Monticello. The Monroes spent summers there and winters near the Court of Appeals in Richmond or the U.S. Senate in Philadelphia following his election as a senator in 1790. In 1794, Monroe was appointed U.S. minister to France, where they quickly adopted French customs and language, enrolling Eliza in a French school. During this two-year term, Elizabeth performed one notable public deed with her visit to Madame de Lafayette, scheduled for execution following the French Revolution. The publicity surrounding her visit resulted in Madame Lafayette's release.
In 1797, the Monroes returned to Charlottsville, Virginia, where James worked closely with Thomas Jefferson and James Madison in building the Republican Party. In 1799, he was elected governor of Virginia. In May that same year, Elizabeth gave birth to a son who died of whooping cough 16 months later. A third child, Maria Hester, was born in 1803. After three terms as governor, James Monroe accepted President Jefferson's appointment as envoy to France to negotiate the Louisiana Purchase. He engaged in a number of diplomatic assignments in Paris and London from 1803 to 1807 before returning the family to their estate in Virginia. Their daughter Eliza married George Hay, a prominent Virginia politician, in 1808. In 1810, James Monroe was elected to the Virginia Assembly, but he left before his term expired to accept an appointment as secretary of state under James Madison. Elizabeth's arrival in Washington did not go smoothly as, among other things, she retained the French custom of returning but not initiating calls and visits.
In 1816, James Monroe was elected as the fifth president of the United States. Although the Monroes had been residents of Washington for several years, biographers describe them as strangers to social Washington. In sharp contrast to Dolley Madison's gregarious social personality and active calling calendar, Elizabeth Monroe did not accept private invitations and entertained infrequently. Elizabeth called upon her daughter Eliza to help her with social commitments, only to find that Eliza's French socialization and manners also alienated Washington society. Never certain of her formal status when she acted in her mother's place, she often appeared dictatorial. The rift eventually led James Monroe to call a special cabinet meeting in 1817 to consider the protocol of receiving diplomats in Washington.
Ultimately, Elizabeth Monroe's choices in shaping her public role may have had as much to do with health problems as with precedent setting. Paying calls was exhausting, and Elizabeth suffered from a number of maladies, including rheumatism and headaches, occasional seizures, and several serious fevers. While foreign visitors approved of her reserved formality, it stood in stark contrast to her immediate predecessor, Dolley Madison, and did not sit well with most Americans.
Elizabeth Monroe's health deteriorated considerably during her husband's second term. When John Quincy Adams became president in 1825, the Monroes were unable to vacate the White House for several weeks until Elizabeth was well enough to travel. In June 1825, the first couple retired to Oak Hill, a plantation in Loudon County, Virginia. On September 23, 1830, Elizabeth Monroe died. James Monroe lived with his daughter, Maria Hester Gouverneur, in New York until his death on July 4, 1831. Almost no historical record regarding Elizabeth and James Monroe remains due to a family tradition of burning all personal correspondence.